6 Responses to Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none. Instead, love lifts and builds up others. Aus John 28 April 2016 at 4:17 pm # Lovely, whether you are a young man leaving home ,or an older man in the evening of his life and coming home it … All rights reserved. 10 Love does no wrong to others, so love fulfills the requirements of God’s law. You might be too blind to see what’s right. It would prompt to justice, truth, and benevolence. It doesn't keep a record of wrongs that others do. It takes responsibility. Love does no wrong to a neighbor, therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law. "Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none." (2 Corinthians 5:19-20; 1 John 4:7-8) What a blessing it is to be saved oneself from bitterness and hatred, and receive mercy and grace from God to enter His kingdom of righteousness, peace and joy! For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and any other commandment, are summed up in this word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law. Only God can accurately judge, for only He sees the heart (1 Samuel 16:7; Psalm 139:1, 23-24). The first love mentioned in the Bible is not romantic love, but parental love (Genesis 22). V4 (is not puffed up) Even when you think you are right and others are wrong. In Romans 13:8-14, Paul proposes a radically different response to a similar type of deadline—one every Christian must face. John similarly records, “A new command I give you: Love one another.As I have loved you, so you must love … Self-love has its place, yet we are happiest when we love God above all and focus on doing good things for others. F. LOVE IS DOES NOT ACT UNBECOMINGLY. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. The focus of love is … Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law. If you love someone too much, your reasoning might be clouded. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love isn't selfish or quick tempered. No, because we are created in the image of God, whose primary quality is unselfish love. Romans 13:10, ESV: "Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law." What does it mean that love is not self-seeking (1 Corinthians 13:5)? One of love’s characteristics is that “it keeps no record of wrongs” (1 Corinthians 13:5). (1 Corinthians 13:5) It is impossible to love somebody and think well of them and at the same time hold the bad things they may have done in the past against them like a register of unpaid debts. Used by permission. This is far away from God’s love and the excitement and joy there is in heaven when a sinner repents, and never wants to sinTo commit sin is to consciously do something that you know goes against God’s will. Love does no wrong to others, so love fulfills the requirements of God’s law. (Click to listen to an audio recording of this article, read by the author: Love keeps no record of wrongs). Compassion motivates people to go out of their way to help the physical, mental, or emotional pains of another and themselves. Those who keep their own hearts pure in the face of all the evil they may experience from other people, and forgive as Jesus forgave, see and experience the goodness of God, and are able to overcome evil with good. Because our implicit associations are stored in our subconscious, we may act on our biases without even realizing it. Love doesn't take things personally. You might do things for which you had never found the time before. Love. Those who have bitter thoughts are never happy, because their thoughts are not God’s thoughts, and He cannot bless them. Also read: Commentary about the story of Joseph and his exemplary attitude. 11 This is all the more urgent, for you know how late it is; time is running out. “And he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.” Genesis 50:21. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. © bcc.media foundation, To commit sin is to consciously do something that you know goes against God’s will. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. The first, what does it mean to love all? Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. This is not love. Jesus could say on the cross: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do.” Luke 23: 34. ActiveChristianity® by Brunstad Christian Church aims to show how God’s word challenges and empowers followers of Jesus to live 100% according to God’s will, so we no longer need to fall in sin, but can come to a life of victory. Terms of Use: Apart from personal use, reproduction or redistribution of material from the ActiveChristianity website for use elsewhere is not permitted without prior written permission. The Greek word used for "judge" in Matthew 7:1 is the same as that used to refer to God's judgments in Revelation 19:11. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. Imagine how you would feel if you were told that you had only a few months to live. Neither is it something you fall in and out of. There is a distinction between remembering events from the past and holding things against people. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. It forgives and allows other people's actions to be their journey. In our own personal relationships, we also show love in our forgiveness of others. What does it mean that love is not easily angered (1 Corinthians 13:5)? Love, therefore, is the fulfillment of the law. Love, therefore, is the fulfillment of the law. Compassion is often regarded as having sensitivity, which is an emotional aspect to suffering. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. It is impossible to love somebody and at the same time hold the bad things they may have done in the past against them. Also read: The danger of letting bitterness slip in. It would not be difficult to understand why you would want to spend your last days indulging yourself. What are the motives and results of our love? Love Fulfills The Law. Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law. 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no … Love does not assert itself or become overbearing in dealing with others. Loving the Way Jesus Loves by Philip Ryken. Though it might sound selfless, loving someone too much actually does more harm than good. And there are no exceptions. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. If the person you are in love with gives you reason to think that they're going to leave you at any second for someone else, your friends are probably already telling you that it's not good for you. So remove your dark deeds like dirty clothes, and put on the shining armor of right living. And no one has ever been less deserving than we are of that. You may be interested in reading more on our Relationship with others theme page, or in the following: Scripture taken from the New King James Version®, unless otherwise specified. Love is patient, love is kind. This can be in word, deed, or even thought. Here are some of the reasons why it is bad to love someone too much: 1. "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets" (Matthew 7:12). Purchase or download Christian literature at Christian BookShop, the online bookstore for Hidden Treasures Foundation Publishers (HTFP)/Stiftelsen Skjulte Skatter Forlag (SSSF). The parable of the good Samaritan is about loving your neighbor. How does love cover all wrongs (Proverbs 10:12). God’s children leave that to their Father. We love them as they are, and we can pray for them out of a sincere Godly love and concern for them. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself. Did you know that love is NOT an emotion? If this law were engraved on every man‘s heart, and practiced in his life, what a change would it immediately produce in society! 9 For this, “ You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and if there is any other commandment, it is summed up in this saying, “ You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 10 Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 2. Love forgives. Romans 13:10 Love does no harm to a neighbor. But what exactly does that mean? So often, people say they love each other, but, as soon as one gets angry, out comes the list of past sins! You might try to cram a lifetime into those last days. Refusing to keep a record of wrongs is a clear expression of God’s love and forgiveness. Whenever you think about that person you remember this incident and that incident, and Satan will certainly enjoy tormenting you by reminding you about these incidents in great detail. Joseph knew in his heart, even before the Law, that vengeance belonged to God. "Do to others as you would have them do to you" (). It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. But the truth is, without an understanding of who God is, it is impossible to properly define love. is not rude, is not self-seeking, is not irritable, and does not keep a record of wrongs. (James 1:14-15), “As for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive.”, “And he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.”, Commentary about the story of Joseph and his exemplary attitude. You know that God wants you to forgive your debtors, and you want your transgressions to be forgiven, but you can’t do this if you hold things against others, and neither can God forgive you and cast your sins into the depths of the sea, because you keep a record of past wrongs and keep digging up the past! Love never fails. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law." rude. It will be difficult to see what’s right or wrong. For some, the definition of love is sex. 9. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. Love doesn't think their loved ones are wrong. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. It is true that scripture is malleable, full of internal contradiction. The love we have seen in Jesus Christ who died for us has led us to repentance over our hardness, selfishness and pride, so that we can also be along in the ministry of reconciliation—not reckoning people’s trespasses to them, not keeping a record of wrongs and constantly going through this record in our mind—but showing people how blessed it is to love one another as Christ loved us. It’s a lovely saying for sure, but let’s try to analyze and find the answer to why it’s so important to love yourself first, from a … (Genesis 1: 27; 1 John 4:8) This means that we are designed to show love for others. Accusations fly, painful memories are dredged up, and bygones are no longer bygones. Love worketh no ill … - Love would seek to do him good; of course it would prevent all dishonesty and crime toward others. Romans 13:10, NASB: "Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law." 10. He reminds the Christia… Barnes' Notes on the Bible. E. LOVE IS NOT ARROGANT. No exceptions to love. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. What does it mean that love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth (1 Corinthians 13:6)? No “Well, this person doesn’t deserve it.” Jesus laid down His life for us, the ultimate sign of how much He loved us. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. You might travel to places you have always wanted to see. Suffocating egotism or life-giving selflessness? To quote the classic proverb, “Do you want to others as you would have them do unto you.” Most people don’t want to be miss treated and abused, so with this golden rule is telling us to do is to be compassionate and kind to other people, the generous when you can, and generally, don’t be an ass. (James 1:14-15) ... again. Romans 13:10, KJV: "Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law." Wake up, for our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed. Good and bad can be found there. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love keeps no record of wrongs. Love does no harm to a neighbor. Reading further, we discover that agape love keeps no record (meaning to count, charge with, decide, think, conclude, or suppose) of wrong (bad or evil in the widest sense). True, godly love forgives and refuses to keep track of personal slights received. A related … When you love someone who doesn't love you back, it can take a long time to accept that it's virtually impossible for things to work out. For others, the meaning of love is tied to material possessions. Love does no wrong to its neighbor. Love works together. The Bible says that God is love. Love has no list of how or how often it has been offended. The Complete Jewish Bible Love keeps no record of wrongs (Click to listen to an audio recording of this article, read by the author: Love keeps no record of wrongs) (1 Corinthians 13:5) It is impossible to love somebody and think well of them and at the same time hold the bad things they may have done in the past against them like a register of unpaid debts. There’s a cliché saying that you have to love yourself first, before you can deeply love other people, be it your spouse, family or friends – assuming that we know different kinds of love. 12 The night is almost gone; the day of salvation will soon be here. “He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.” 1 John 4:8. Love doesn't play the victim role or blame others. Love does not flaunt itself boastfully and does not engage in self-glorification. A2A "You need to love yourself, before you can love anyone else" - not once, I think I have used this one line in almost every tenth answer I write on Quora, as maximum of them involve relationship problems. - William Shakespeare quotes from BrainyQuote.com Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. But who is your neighbor? When someone has been traumatized through abuse or violence, painful memories can last for years, but to be able to forgive is part of the healing process, and does not contradict the need for people to accept responsibility and face the consequences of their crimes. Romans 13:10 (CSB) Love does no wrong to a neighbor. The assumptions, stereotypes, and unintentional actions (positive or negative) we make towards others based on identity labels like race, religion, age, gender, sexual orientation, or ability. does not act improperly, is not selfish, is not provoked, and does not keep a record of wrongs. This can be in word, deed, or even thought. Love doesn't think others are "out to get them." Ephesians 4:2 ESV / 7 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, Romans 13:10, NIV: "Love does no harm to a neighbor. Joseph said “As for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive.” Genesis 50:20. Love … More insights from your Bible study - Get Started with Logos Bible Software for Free! What does it mean that love is not rude (1 Corinthians 13:5)? They do not believe in God’s love and wisdom, like Joseph in Genesis 50:19-21 when his brothers were afraid that he would take revenge on them for what they had done to him years before. 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